Is this peri related?

Hey Ladies, So I 42f have been with my husband for 9 years, and he is still the hottest MF on Earth to me, we laugh every day, we have 2 beautiful boys and I LOVE our life together, I also think he's sexy as hell, and our sexy time is incredible, however.... Lately I have zero sex drive, I do work a lot etc etc but this is like physically zero interest, to the point he's starting counting bjs, so far? zero this year, and sex has probably only been 2-3 times tops, I'm probably in peri menopause, and I guess I'm just asking to anyone who's been here, is there like, idk, a way around it? I love having sex with my husband, I hate that he feels like I have lost interest and it's been so long with certain intimacies he's now counting in *months* and I guess I'm just hoping there's a shortcut to feeling horny again or just advice on any ways to fix it? Also we communicate awesome, he does literally everything right, I'm just not feeling it, but I want it 🤷🏼‍♀️