How do you deal with parents?

I'm 16, ftm, and my parents are completely against trans people. they think it's weird and wrong and blah blah blah. and I'm like... 60% sure I'm trans. I don't feel body dysmorphia I think? only when I like am actively touching my feminine parts. but that's about it. I don't mind being a girl, I think I can live like this. I just would rather be a boy you know?? anyways, my dad is the type of dude to say "if you think your an animal I should have the right to shoot you" to furries. amd my mom says anytime she sees pride stuff "those people already have a month, what more do they want?" direct quotes. yay for me guys!!! anyways, their racist, like they both said if I bring over a black guy (or Latin, African, basically anything not east Asian, Polynesian, or white) my grandfather would drop dead and they'd be ashamed. (sorry but I love beautiful people I dont give a shit abt race bsfr) so. like, I don't know. I'm debating going minimum to low contact with them if I don't come out. no contact if I do. its just kinda hard to like understand myself when they talk about trans people so negatively. I guess I want someone else's experience or tips on how to like be trans with shit parents???