Tattoo suggestions? TW: sui****

I just lost my niece. She had come out just a year ago and was still in the first phases of transition. My heart is shattered, I loved that kid so so much. I am also the proud mother of an amazing transgender non-binary person that means absolutely everything to me. This is so hard. And I am grasping for some kind of expression for my grief and love at the same time. And I thought, perhaps some sort of tattoo? I do not have any tattoos from before, so I am thinking a small-ish trans rememberance or -ally tattoo? I don't think my nieces name, but maybe incorporate the first letter of her chosen name somehow or something? I guess my question is this a good idea? Or if it is not? I wanted to discuss this with someone before talking with my own kid (young adult) and maybe ask that, if it is a good idea, if anyone has any suggestions to what kind of tattoo/design I should be looking at? Sorry for my bad English, my brain isn't working properly nowadays, it is clouded by the grief. Please be nice.