Getting uglier after losing weight

ive heard all about people gaining pretty privilege after losing weight but the opposite is happening to me. i used to be significantly overweight (160cm, 76 kg) now im 64 kg n visibly way leaner than before n im also trying to take care of my skin (so far no acne or pimples) but i feel like im comparatively getting less approached n less people trying to flirt with me?? even tho im also trying to be more friendly towards strangers (since losing weight gave me a bit of confidence) but i just kind of noticed that im always the one initiating convos w strangers when it used to be the opposite.