Curious as to what led to some of you guys to get diagnosed

So I understand that I shouldn’t trust everything I read online, but I am genuinely curious as to what led some of you guys here to go and get a diagnosis I come from a Latino/middle eastern family so they don’t believe in anything pas physical ailments. However I’ve always suspected I got something due to having hyper fixations and being super aware of people, yet I have my days like today where I can’t do anything right or focus on a single thing for more than a few seconds I always just assumed those were normal for most people. I’m sorry for the lengthy paragraphs but I’m at a loss right now, I’m trying to work towards a super high goal rn and I really want to give myself all the footing possible and I don’t feel that I can ignore it any longer. Any insight would be greatly appreciated