Trouble orgasming due to anxiety

Hi, Ive never posted on here so I’m sorry if I’m not doing this right 🥲 My partner (M-early 20s) and I (F-also early 20s) have been dating for over a year now. I’ve never had any issues feeling anxious or uncomfortable with him, and we’re pretty sexually heathy. I worked in a sex store for some time so I’m not a stranger to how things work i suppose. Sexual health is something I don’t feel shame or much embarrassment about. I, like many others, can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. This is cool with me, and cool with him. We have toys to help with that. Usually when it comes to sex it’s either me using them during, or it’s kinda “taking turns.” I still really enjoy sex and when we do things like this it’s sorta my foreplay. He orgasms and then I do. No prob. I guess no prob till now? After a year of doing things like this? I had a period of depression, and that triggered the first time I struggled. I’d get really close and things would feel intense but nothing would happen. It’s happened multiple times since then and happens more often than when I can orgasm. My partner suggested today that maybe im getting in my head about it, and that the anxiety of it happening again is triggering it happening so frequently. Im not sure how to not feel anxious, I didn’t even realize I was till after he mentioned it. So I guess I’m here seeing if anyone has ever felt similarly and what they might’ve done to help with it? Im open to all and any advice or relations to personal experience that anyone would like to share! Apologies if anything was TMI 😥